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  •  I don't know a thing about the formal "running" or (0+ / 0-)

    administration of a church. But it seems clear that it is foremost an institution, and I guess that does throw up a good many roadblocks to human assistance.

    What if there wasn't a formal program? What if a door was just left unlocked? Not even any advertising of such, but what if?

    I don't necessarily want the backbone of our common good and general welfare to be church or charity based, BTW. I'd prefer my tax dollars used to support and provide for that role. But I guess I do see a role for churches, hospitals, hell, even the nicely subsidized-via-tax-incentives "hospitality industry", contributing to (what I learned as) works of mercy.  That would include each of us as individual citizens and human beings as well.

    •  At my church, there are 8 hours a week when (1+ / 0-)
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      more than one person is scheduled to be in the building. So a door left open would mean either leaving my secretary vulnerable to crime or letting folks in unsupervised. One of my staff let a guy who looked like he was about to have heatstroke (more common where I live than frostbite) into the building while we were having a committee meeting--with that I'm okay. But we're a small place, we have limits.

      Five years after I chose my username, happily living somewhere else.

      by Tenn Wisc Dem on Mon Nov 28, 2011 at 02:42:07 PM PST

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      •  How do you tell a criminal from a soul in need of (0+ / 0-)

        prayer from a cold or tired human? Why would your first assumption be that a predator of some sort was trying to enter the church? Are you in a high crime area?  Just trying to learn more, with due respect. I'm used to a church that is often open (and once upon a time, was always open), so I don't really understand the unsupervised thing. None of your members ever just come to pray other than during times of scheduled services? [I know a little about semi-rural fundie/holiness churches. Beyond that, not much, outside my own faith.]

        •  No, we aren't in a good neighborhood. (0+ / 0-)

          And a woman entirely by herself shouldn't take chances even though it is likely that the person has real need. I manage to spend the money I have available, and ask God to send the ones who truly need me at the right times.

          Members and regular attenders will always be admitted for whatever they need to do--pray, work, meetings, whatever.  They ring the doorbell, we see them on camera, and we go let them in.

          Yesterday I had three people come in my church for help. Two of them got it. The third wasn't willing to adhere to my requirements, which were really not that strict. I want to see a picture id (I don't care from where), or get some information that demonstrates that what you tell me is true.  The one who couldn't provide that was more likely to be the one ripping me off.

          I had three folks come today, but I was alone, so I didn't help. And the amount I'd spent yesterday was pretty much my budget for the week, anyway.

          I learned a while ago that my BS meter isn't good enough. I am far too likely to think someone is in need when they are really trying to rip me off than the other way around.  I have battle scars to prove that. So I put rules on myself so that I don't get carried away too often.

          Five years after I chose my username, happily living somewhere else.

          by Tenn Wisc Dem on Wed Nov 30, 2011 at 11:20:53 AM PST

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