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    we should not go into the 'hardness' of work at home vs. work outside the home, for anyone.  We can go down the 'mile in someone else's moccasins' road', arguing about the hardness, and even relevancy of staying at home, but in my opinion this is an emotional distraction that will convert no one, which distracts from what should be the real issue: the 'choice' to stay at home  by anyone (mother, father, grandmother, grandfather) is being taken away by Republican party policies.

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    by sailmaker on Thu Apr 12, 2012 at 10:23:48 AM PDT

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      We should not buy into the idea that you're utterly useless to society unless you can be classified as a "worker" in some fashion.  I think that's why society tends to write off the concerns of the elderly, the disabled, and children.  Not important, because they're not "productive."  I don't think we need to find some way to equate being a mom and homemaker with selling labor to the privileged classes.  I think we need to fight the meme that selling your labor to the 1% is the only thing that gives you worth in society, and moms have that worth only to the extent that their efforts can be described as "work."  

      I also think that, once you define a mom's role as "working," it's just a slippery slope to "relocating" that work outside the home. She's already working, right?  Why not just go get a wage-earning job?  It's not like what she does at home, raising the family, is in a different category than what she could do as a fry cook at Wendy's, right?  I resist that impulse to find raising kids and homemaking as equivalent to work for the very reason that finding the equivalency destroys the justification for stay-at-home.

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      by milton333 on Thu Apr 12, 2012 at 11:37:23 AM PDT

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