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  •  I agree with you that the family deserves (0+ / 0-)

    zero slack.

    But there are societal forces that play a part in this.

    Perhaps parents are predisposed to abuse and are finally pushed over the edge by frustration and lack of any support whatsoever.  

    I don't know the answer, but I do believe that the parents are fully responsible for their actions.  

    Still, I wonder if there is something we can do as a society - support systems, treatment, housing, etc - which could make this a less frequent occurrence?

    "The law is meant to be my servant and not my master, still less my torturer and my murderer." -- James Baldwin. July 11, 1966.

    by YucatanMan on Wed Feb 06, 2013 at 02:34:22 PM PST

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    •  I think the first thing we should do as a society (1+ / 0-)
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      is to stop ignoring possible abuse. Whenever there is a story like this, people come out of the wordwork saying "I thought about reporting it, but..." or "Yeah, I saw the kid eating out of garbage cans. He/she looked really skinny."

      But no one does anything. Or, conversely, we hear "I called several times..." but the police or social services did not do anything.

      I strongly feel that as a society we need to be far less afraid of getting involved and more willing to listen to people and kids reporting abusive behavior.

      We Won't Let Republicans Replace Medicare with GOP Vouchercare!

      by CatM on Wed Feb 06, 2013 at 04:21:51 PM PST

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    •  I apologize for misreading things (1+ / 0-)
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      Obviously my suggestion would not make this a "less frequent occurrence."

      I don't have an answer for that. Maybe financial incentives could be offered (like discounts on maternal care/delivery) for parents who complete parenting classes.

      Maybe if schools have special needs children, they should implement a program for making sure those kids get some sort of counseling at least once a month so they have someone they feel they can talk to if they are having a serious problem at home.

      We Won't Let Republicans Replace Medicare with GOP Vouchercare!

      by CatM on Wed Feb 06, 2013 at 04:24:02 PM PST

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