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  •  It's hell for adoptees, keuka77 (1+ / 0-)
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    No adoption should take place without the birth parents' complete medical history being recorded, going all the way back to the grandparents.  Each  original mother should be allowed to write a letter to her child, telling her or him why she was forced to relinquish. The original mother should write about her hopes for her child, and about things she likes to do--music, painting, horseback riding, or whatever her hobby happens to be. The letter could be given to the adoptee when he or she reaches the age of 18.  It would be kinder than the past system.

    I was lucky.  My uncle and aunt, who lived in another state, adopted my daughter.  But they never told her who I was until she was 28 and on the verge of marriage. She demanded to know more about me, so they finally told her.

    It's awful for adoptees who have to wonder about these things all their lives unless they find their birth parents.

    "Religion is what keeps the poor from murdering the rich."--Napoleon

    by Diana in NoVa on Tue May 07, 2013 at 04:54:46 PM PDT

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