You don't shoot hoops with him, you don't smuggle him cigarettes, and he does not invite you to White House movie night.
Conversely, he is also not the prom date who drunk fucked you and skipped out on you when you were getting that tattoo that they talked you into.
Barack Obama is a husband, father, politician, and President of the United States of America.
I think that a lot of people are personally vested in Barack Obama, either positively or negatively, to a degree that is just plain creepy.
I suggest that you look at the poise of a classy young lady Chelsea Clinton.
If she had reacted to the criticism, or praise, of her parents with the same level of obsession some people here experience with a man they never met, she'd be sharing a cell with Lindsay Lohan.
I'm just saying.