Two steps forward, one step back.
That seems to be the theme with this administration, particularly as it affects LGBT people.
Citing the Defense of Marriage Act, the Obama administration denied immigration benefits to a married gay couple from San Francisco and ordered the expulsion of a man who is the primary caregiver to his AIDS-afflicted spouse.
If you think that we are in a new era of respecting all relationships, even if we just can't use the word "marriage" to describe everyone's relationship, you would be wrong.
Bradford Wells, a U.S. citizen, and Anthony John Makk, a citizen of Australia, were married seven years ago in Massachusetts. They have lived together 19 years, mostly in an apartment in the Castro district. The U.S. Citizenship and Immigration Services denied Makk's application to be considered for permanent residency as a spouse of an American citizen, citing the 1996 law that denies all federal benefits to same-sex couples.
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"I'm married just like any other married person in this country," Wells said. "At this point, the government can come in and take my husband and deport him. It's infuriating. It's upsetting. I have no power, no right to keep my husband in this country. I love this country, I live here, I pay taxes and I have no right to share my home with the person I married."
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The agency's decision cited the Defense of Marriage Act as the reason for the denial of an I-130 visa, or spousal petition that could allow Makk to apply for permanent U.S. residency. "The claimed relationship between the petitioner and the beneficiary is not a petitionable relationship," the decision said. "For a relationship to qualify as a marriage for purposes of federal law, one partner must be a man and the other a woman."
Obama and Attorney General Eric Holder decided earlier this year that the law, commonly known as DOMA, is unconstitutional on equal protection grounds and that the administration would no longer defend it in court. House Republicans hired an outside counsel to defend it instead. However, the administration said it would continue to enforce the law, while exercising discretion on a case-by-case basis.
Can you imagine being told after 19 years that yours is "not a petitionable relationship"??? How f*cking insulting!!
Here's who to contact in order to put on pressure to change the outcome of this case (and Makk has been order to be deported on Aug 25) ---
Call Nancy Pelosi's office:
DC: (202) 225-4965
SF: (415) 556-4862
Call the White House:
(202) 456-1414
Call the Dept of (In)Justice:
(202) 514-2000
Enough is enough with this b.s. about it just being about a word. This isn't just about a word. This is about human decency, respect, and our core values as a nation. If we don't start calling this injustice out now, it will just perpetuate and continue to tear apart families and loved ones.
Anything you can do to draw attention not only to this specific instance but the ongoing injustice waged against countless others (who don't get a story in their local paper) is much appreciated.
Thank you.