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I got this great idea for a diary topic while sitting in church last Sunday morning. Even made a cryptic single sentence note about it (yes, I used my smartphone in church during the sermon. It's ok :-)). I forgot, however, that I wasn't writing on Tuesday and should have given myself more of a prompt! However, I reconstructed enough of the gist of it to make for what (I hope) is an interesting read. Follow me below the dingledoodle squigglie dKosagnocchi dividerthingie fold after a word from our sponsor...

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It was during the minister's sermon,, and he asked us to think about what came to mind when he said the following words (I don't have the exhaustive list, it was about 20 or so; this is all my aged brain remembers):

Black
White
Mexican
European
Christian
Muslim
Jew
Gay
Transgender
Rapper
Hotel worker
CEO
Homeless
Undocumented worker

What my minister was trying for was to have us see what our stereotypes look like; ie for many people "Muslim" = faceless veiled woman, "undocumented worker =  Hispanic gardener, etc. Even in a generally open-minded Unitarian Universalist congregation, I'm sure that's what came to mind for lots of people.

What surprised me, personally, was that I didn't see stereotypical groups. I saw individuals, for every single category listed. OK, for some I didn't have a name to go with it, but I knew I'd seen an individual speak at Netroots Nation or I'd been introduced to someone specific via dKos diary. For most, though, it was a specific person or people I know in my life.

What I hope is that having an actual face to place with each of the myriad groups we assemble ourselves into makes it that much more difficult to stereotype that group. I cringe any time someone characterizes a group of people with a "definitive" adjective.

From 10 weeks old until she went to kindergarten, K1 attended a very ethnically, economically and racially diverse daycare close to where Mr. Brillig worked. Instead of the predominantly white Catholic demographic of our town, she had caregivers who spoke to her in english, spanish and creole, and friends whose families reflected the rainbow that is modern-day America. To this day, she's never been phased by people who don't look, sound or live like her. The prejudices many of her schoolmates had didn't make sense to her, because she'd known poor and rich and black and white and gay and straight people her whole life. They were just people.

The fear-mongerers infesting our airwaves and internets attempt to control by sowing fear of those different from ourselves. Don't let that happen. Make sure you've got a face to go with each group they try to tell you are Not Like You.

By the way... that includes one that we here often have the most trouble with: Republicans. Yes, I know half of you just moved very far away from me and are checking my comment history to see if I'm a sleeper troll. And if I need to expand on this further, then you need to consider just how immune to stereotyping you are.

Floor's open... talk to me about stereotypes, or whatever else has you thinking tonight.



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