"I'm not saying that people with separate accounts have marriages that are less healthy than anybody else's. I'm saying we should pause before this becomes the social norm."
http://www.nytimes.com/2005/03/01/opinion/01brooks.html?th
Dear David,
I've been married going on 27 years, and we've had separate accounts and GASP different last names that whole time, and we don't need any f'ing advice on how live our lives or have a marriage from you.
Love,
Me