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I can't imagine the emotional hardships they must have endured. It makes it that much more wonderful to see this young couple so happy, and so in love. Their story is different than most. Katie grew up in a boy's body, feeling like a girl. Arin grew up in a girl's body, feeling more like a boy. They met two years ago in a transgender support group in Tulsa, Oklahoma, and fell in love. Both decided to have elective surgery. Arin had chest surgery last month and is happy to go shirtless, and show it off his new chest.

In a Huffington Post report:

Katie said:"Being transgender myself, I understand Arin better than anybody else - how good he feels and how complete he feels."

Arin added:"I hated my breasts, I always felt like they didn't belong. "Now I finally feel comfortable in my own body. œNow when I am out in a public pool or lifting weights, no one raises an eyebrow. They just think I'm a guy. ... I can wear a tank top, which I couldn't before, and I can go swimming shirtless. I can just be a regular guy. And I so lucky to have my family and Katie to rely on."

Growing up was not easy for the couple. Katie was bullied and abused which she says caused depression. At 15 she confided to her mother that she wante to become a girl.
Katie Hill's mother said: "Knowing what Katie went through for eight-plus years -- there's nothing worse than watching your child suffer. "It's still my baby -- male or female, she's still my child. And I don't have to kneel at her grave."

Arin Andrew's mother had this to say:"Seeing Katie go through her surgery was helpful to Arin," she said,"It was being around it and seeing her getting to transform. And being a couple at the time was I think just the cherry on the cake. Every transgender person would love to have the transformation physically because it just completes them as a person."

Today, Arin 17, and Katie 19, are an inspiration, not only to transgender teens, and adults - they are an inspiration to us all. Through courage, support, love, and belief in their dreams, they were able to match the outside, with the essence and beauty they felt inside. I know I'm not alone in wishing them great joy. Writing this has made my heart sing.

For more about the lives and courtship of Arin and Katie,Mail Online has an extensive story with more photos.

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