My father died ten years ago today. I used to remember his passing with the reminder that he passed away on the Sunday before Father's Day during the Sopranos while Tony ran away from the feds as his boss was arrested. His passing was expected; it freed him.
When we are going through stressful moments other more obvious coincidences can be forgotten or misplaced in our memories.
At the time of his death, I did not realize--and for several years afterwards--that my father's mortal departure also coincided with the (then) 60th anniversary of the D-Day landings.
He was a World War 2 combat veteran who "passed" in order to be in a unit with "friends" from his neighborhood. I think it makes for a better story to remind myself that he had to pay the boatman a bribe to cross the River Styx for the journey to the afterlife on the anniversary of D-Day--as opposed to the sort of liminal, wishy washy observation that he died the week before Father's Day.
In the hagiography fueled American Exceptionalism remembrances of D-Day this weekend, and the flat Hollywood Clinton era pop culture notion that there is a cohort rightfully called "The Greatest Generation", it would behoove us to also remember that the men and women who fought World War 2 were also human beings.
The Greatest Generation was flawed. They were not divine giants, Nephilim, or half-breed Titans. Many, if not most of them, were racists who supported Jim and Jane Crow. There were millions of the Greatest Generation who benefited from the G.I. Bill and VA/FHA housing programs while black and brown veterans were denied those same fruits and benefits of citizenship as earned through military service. Of course, many World War 2 veterans took their experiences from the military and worked to make the United States a more egalitarian society.
Like so many other important and memorialized events, the (white) American public memory of D-Day is also processed through the white racial frame. The defeat of the Axis powers by the Allies in World War 2 was a multiracial, multi ethnic, international project. White Americans did not defeat the Nazis; All Americans helped to defeat the Nazis and their allies.
In all, the anniversary of D-Day should be much more than an obligatory viewing of war porn like Saving Private Ryan or Band of Brothers. Instead, it should be a moment of simultaneously memorializing and giving respect to the soldiers of World War 2, while also discussing how their victory helped to create the present. This includes the good (a multiracial democracy) as well as the bad (how the State created suburbia, and in doing so, further stratified wealth and income opportunities by race).
We must also never forget that Black Americans were present on D-Day. When you overhear a friend, colleague, or stranger talking about World War 2 and the Greatest Generation today or this weekend, do make sure to remind them of that fact.
While many on the White Right would like to deny said reality, the events of D-Day and World War 2 are the history and birthright of all Americans.