i am still in a bit of shock over the last few days and the response of this community to my crisis.
i WILL answer each and every one of you - and will do so in the next few days.
i have to find a place where to begin... saying thank you doesn't seem enough -
so, please don't mistake my quietness as a lack of gratitude - it is from not knowing what to say - yet.
but, i'll fix that - i promise! 8^)