The media, liberal and conservative, have decided that the Hero General cheating on his wife is sad. Not so much for his wife or family. More for what this means for his legacy. Sad. A middle aged married man having sex outside his marriage (and putting national security at risk) is sad. Everybody feels really bad for him. But a young woman who wants access to birth control from her insurance provider and might not even have sex but wants to be protected just in case.... She's a slut. Yup. Sad.