We've been talking about the rules. I don't like rules. Never have never will. I still buck at authority. I have issues. I know. But I have learned in life and here on this site how to interact with my fellow humans in a more humane way. I thought I'd share. As always I only put these words out there how you perceive them is on you.
Let's start with a few simple things. Get sleep, eat and medicate before coming online to discuss stuff. If you're weak from not eating sleeping or drugging you're no good to yourself or the rest of us. Go away come back fatter, rested and high. Substitute exercise or any other thing you use to alter your mind and release those sweet drugs trapped in your brain that make you feel better.
If you think a comment is off and not like something someone would say assume it's misplaced snark and move the fuck on.
LET IT GO. NO SERIOUSLY LET IT GO. YES. LET IT GO. IT'S OKAY TO LET IT GO.
Let it go...
Mother fuckers need to chill with the troll hunting. We are good at weeding out the real trolls. Stop with the crazy accusations. The trolls that dance in the heads of some out here are a different story that I am not prepared to get into.
I try not to hold grudges. I like to remind myself when I am slipping into grudge mode how pathetic I think it is when others do it. Self shame. FTW.
As pico said the cancel button is your friend. This wisdom failed me many times. Now I know better and use the first draft to get out all my morons and mother fuckers and then I can respond without getting myself booted for life.
If people are leaving this site because one pack or the other is too mean then it's on them. Stand up to these fools or stop engaging them. Running away is a waste of time. Let it go. Go create a space on this site and interact with the people you like and ignore the ones you don't. If you feel you can't have an honest discussion with someone then so be it, ignore them. Let it go.
I created my own thing out here and people who come up to my cage do it knowing what they are getting into. Most veterans of this site know which cages to avoid in order to avoid pie fighting, the new ones can follow our lead, if we chose to lead.
We know better but still we fight with each other. Recognize this and correct the behavior. If not continue to suffer.
We need an open thread therapy diary posted every midnight eastern time so people can vent. This is it.
Yes, Bob Johnson, this will help.