California's assembly Democrats are staying far away from Mark Leno's same-sex marriage bill until after the elections (I guess I can't blame them, although I hope they take the issue up at some point):
http://www.mercurynews.com/mld/mercurynews/news/politics/8337368.htm
Minnesota's hate groups are running radio ads in the districts of some of the most vulnerable DFL senators, demanding people call their legislators and ask for another vote on the big anti-marriage amendment:
http://www.twincities.com/mld/pioneerpress/news/politics/8334153.htm
Carrboro, NC's mayor wants his state to try to repeal some parts of the DOMA law:
http://rdu.news14.com/content/headlines/?ArID=45287&SecID=2
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